Exactly two years ago today, I had written about my final monthly payment toward nearly $40,000 in credit card debt, in a post entitled My Parable of Debt Management. For 52 months, I had contributed roughly 50 percent of my take-home pay toward Money Management International (they are wonderful). It was a grueling process. It forced me to differentiate between mandatory and discretionary expenses, think creatively about where I could cut costs and increase income, and maintain a strict budget. Throughout that time, I had retained one credit card in order to maintain some credit history, but as a stipulation of my Debt Management Plan, I was never permitted to add any debt to that card. I still possessed some student loan debt but it was (and is) manageable, and the interest rate remained low.
So how has my financial situation progressed over the last two years?
I began using credit cards again -- responsibly. "What?! Shouldn't you avoid using credit cards?" you may exclaim. One of the valuable lessons I learned is that utilizing credit cards can be a positive action if you're disciplined about it. Of vital importance is to effectively manage your credit cards and build upon your credit history. What you should avoid is carrying a balance from one month to the next. Charge your cards, but pay them in full every month; this is how you avoid accruing interest.
I applied for and accepted a second credit card. At this time, I hold two credit card accounts. One account is designated primarily for purchases related to my professional photography business. The second account includes major expenses and significant travel, especially outside of the country. Most debit and credit cards apply an international transaction fee whenever you make purchases abroad; if you believe you might travel outside of the country EVER, obtaining a credit card with zero international transaction fees makes a lot of sense! Both accounts feature the advantage of rewards programs. A small percentage of every purchase is turned into a cash reward that can be used at a later time in the form of discounts, checks, or returned to your account to help pay your bill.
I always pay my balances in full. I enjoy the rewards benefits. I keep my credit history in excellent shape. I eventually will apply for a third card to increase my available credit. I also maintain a credit score above 800, which will be helpful whenever I purchase a car, rent an apartment, or buy a home.
I accumulated enough emergency savings to last one full year. This created a safety net in the event of a major financial scare with my health or property. It also enabled me to pursue a career change on my own terms. In late July 2017, I made a decision to resign from my job as a residence hall director -- without another job in place. It's a risk -- but while I enjoyed many aspects of my job, I was ready to take some time off, evaluate my long-term career goals, and consider a change that would keep me refreshed and challenged. Since leaving my job, I have dedicated much of my time to my part-time professional photography business that I've managed since 2005. Leveraging time and money into a side business in which you have a passion is a great way to create additional income. In the mean time, I have been actively searching for a new full-time career; my fingers are crossed for that search to pay off soon!
Without the savings I had built up, I would not have been free to take time off and explore new options.
I've continued the practice of limiting expenses wherever I can.
I am obsessed with mocha lattes, and instead of buying them at coffee shops (although I still occasionally treat myself), I make them at home with an espresso machine -- resulting in an 80% savings on the daily coffee expenses.
Additionally, I am an avid fan of Ting, an independent mobile phone company. My monthly mobile phone bill on average is less than $30. By purchasing a phone at full retail value, you simplify things. You don't pay hidden fees like major phone companies charge. The great news is Ting now allows you to lease a phone and make monthly payments if you're unable to pay full price all at once. If you do the research and find Ting would work for you, use this referral link to earn $25 on a Ting phone or credit; just make sure you use it BEFORE creating an account (full confession: I'll also earn a $25 credit).
I buy in bulk from Costco for items that make sense for me. I prefer to buy the generics at a lower price and which are usually just as good as the brand names. I eat at home far more often than I do by dining out.
All in all, my financial situation is healthy. There are plenty of ways where I can still improve. In the future, I plan to contribute at a higher rate to a retirement plan (I've contributed for over 14 years but I can do better). I'd also like to invest on my own. And when I settle down in one place, I hope to purchase a home when it's the right move.
Thank you for taking an interest in my situation, but I also hope you can gain some tips for your own financial future from this blog post! Please stay tuned for more updates!
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Photograph taken by yours truly in eastern Washington state at sunrise, 2004
Wednesday, December 6, 2017
Sunday, December 6, 2015
My Parable of Debt Management
Throughout my entire adulthood, the draw of credit cards gradually dragged me into a deep, dark ocean trench.
It was subtle at first, as I wandered from the sandy beach's edge and made a few purchases on a credit card that was far too easy to obtain. I got my feet wet, and it seemed harmless -- even a little thrilling. I knew intuitively that a gigantic, swirling ocean was out there; however, as long as I could see the beach, I would be okay. I ventured further out, accumulating debt but assuming that as long as I could see the houses dotted behind the shifting dunes, someone could still see me, wade into the water, and pull me back to safety. I made larger purchases, visiting England a couple of times and paid for a cross-country trip to Idaho (for a new job) entirely on credit cards. In fact, my parents even threw a life line out to me, providing me an interest-free loan to pay off one of the cards. I did that but my spending habits did not change, and I still tacked on debt to other credit cards.
Then a ferocious wave crashed over me, and I felt a rapid tug pulling me out to sea, much like a rip current. At first, I tried to swim back to land. It was exhausting because I'd stop putting new charges on the credit cards, but high interest rates were an issue; plus I still made unnecessary purchases on my debit card. It reached the point that all I could see were some distant mountains far behind the beach homes -- were they mountains? Or storm clouds?
I was pulled under. I could still make out the light shimmering upon the water's surface. As long as I could see that light, perhaps I'd be alright. It meant I could still rush up and get some air. So I did that, exploring further down into a cavernous trench, then I'd swim back up and take a few breaths. This continued until I ventured so far down into that trench that I couldn't see the light above. What was up, and which way was down? This was right around the time that my car broke down. My father helped pay for the cost to repair it, but I couldn't trust the car any longer. I couldn't afford to buy a new car or even a used car. The situation seemed hopeless.
At that time, I heard a voice coming from somewhere (actually a co-worker) call out some words offering me a realistic method of escape. It wouldn't be easy, but if I entered into a Debt Management Plan (DMP), I had a good shot of getting back to the surface and ultimately to land again. Through Money Management International, I spoke with a financial counselor. We reviewed all of my assets, debts, income, and monthly spending. She was able to outline a plan to manage the debt. She did the easy work, consulting with my credit card companies to greatly reduce interest rates and tweak minimum payments. It was up to me to take on the difficult, lengthy task of finding alternative sources of income and cutting costs. I switched to a cell phone company called Ting in which I paid only for what I used each month (and received credits by referring others, making it free for about two years); I'm still saving money this way. The biggest thing though was cutting all of my credit cards and closing all of those accounts except one to maintain some credit history.
I stayed true to the Debt Management Plan, and I eventually buoyed to the ocean surface. I could breathe again! As time went on, I gained the strength to start swimming toward the beach again. Every arm stroke I took became easier. An increasing energy surged through me, and I even could add to my monthly payments. The journey to land seemed as though it was quickening -- it was, because the interest based upon the dropping principle balances was also getting reduced. That meant more of my payments was going to the principle balances. It wasn't fun, though, and sometimes it felt like I'd never reach land. The nights would test my patience. This was taking forever! But what other choice did I have than to continue swimming? A glimmer of light from a distant lighthouse gave me the drive to push forward. Each night, that light would become a hint larger. My patience would be rewarded.
Graphic of credit card debt since August 2000 |
It has been 18 years since I first obtained a credit card. And it has been 52 months since I entered into the Debt Management Plan with MMI. As I write this story, I can now tell you that I am standing upon my own two feet again. I can feel the sand between my toes -- it's a wonderful feeling. This month, I'm making my final payment toward the credit card debt. The. Final. Payment!
And I realize there are people gathered on the beach that are delighted to know that I made it out of that deep, dark ocean trench. They supported me and cheered me on during this journey back. Thank you, friends. Thank you, colleagues. Thank you to my parents.
I should feel ecstatic. While I am relieved, I also know that a new journey awaits me. I know it's time to be a responsible adult and mark a personal path ahead. Having financial freedom means that I need to save up money for furniture that I've never been able to afford myself. Having financial freedom means outlining a plan for the future. Most importantly, having financial freedom means that I can finally pursue new career options. I have to do that -- NOW.
The journey never really ends. But at least I can make it on my own, upon stable ground. I will sometimes look back at that vast ocean. I will occasionally dip my feet in the water because you have to make a few purchases every now and then in order to maintain a good credit score and have credit history. Dipping your feet in the water is fine -- even healthy -- as long as you can dry them off quickly.
Wednesday, April 22, 2015
Gut Feelings: Adhesions Suck
In the past, I've written a series of blog posts about 'gut feelings' - specifically, topics relevant to intestinal issues, whether it's my own experience or books I've read that I felt would be good for others to read. You can read any of my posts on this blog by searching through the gut feelings topic (or clicking on this link).
Typically, I stay upbeat in my posts. But I'm feeling the need to write this post as a matter of personal therapy and document a new emotional struggle that has knocked me down hard. Reality dictates that we can't be positive all the time. I know I'm not alone in this process, so it's best to share.
Recently on Saturday, April 18, 2015, I woke up in the morning with some abdominal cramps that felt regrettably like the symptoms of a bowel obstruction. I was supposed to head out that day for a long weekend vacation to Maine, but alas that was not to be. As the day progressed, I became increasingly nauseated and vomited several times. I drank some water in an attempt to stay hydrated but it wouldn't stay in my system and came back up within an hour. I realized I was getting dehydrated.
And I thought, "Screw this. I don't want to go to the hospital." I sat around in my apartment, tired from the pain, and tried to take a nap. "Maybe it'll go away on its own." It wasn't. Through some convincing from my uncle and mother over the phone, I finally got in my car and drove to the hospital about twenty minutes away.
I was grateful that I had a short wait in the emergency room, and within two hours I already had seen a doctor and received painkillers and anti-nausea medication. I've learned from past experience to immediately explain to the ER staff that I have a history of bowel obstructions because it's better to rule it out promptly (or more likely, rule it as the problem) instead of wasting time considering other causes.
The doctor ordered a CT scan, and the scan revealed some back-up and considerable distension in my intestines. The likely suspect this time: small bowel obstruction caused by adhesions (to be defined momentarily). They admitted me into the hospital and I stayed for three nights. I got the standard treatment: IV fluids, and no eating or drinking for at least a day. An NG tube (nasogastric tube) that is inserted through the nose into the stomach was not required this time around, which was a small victory. I've always needed it in the past but this time I didn't. Throughout the hospital stay, I gradually upgraded to a clear liquids diet, then to a "low-residue diet," which is similar to a low fiber diet with some additional stipulations. No surgery required. On the morning of Tuesday, April 21, I was released from the hospital. It will take me a few days to physically recover.
This was my third hospital stay since 2000 for bowel obstructions, not including two other stays for diverticulitis and pancreatitis in the past four years. I thought I figured out the foods to avoid and the right diet to ward off obstructions. This time around, I couldn't pinpoint a reason that I had control over that caused this obstruction.
Though I knew it intellectually, I guess I never really grasped the concept that bowel obstructions caused by abdominal adhesions cannot be prevented with a certain diet or exercise. Adhesions are essentially scars formed due to any number of reasons (past surgeries, inflammation, and other medical conditions). According to a 1990 study, 93% of people who previously had abdominal surgery later developed adhesions. Adhesions may generally be harmless, but they can also wrap around the intestines or adhere the intestines to other organs or the abdominal wall. When this happens, it can result in an obstruction -- which almost always requires medical intervention (sometimes surgery, sometimes not). While treatments have been under development to deter adhesions from forming after surgery (such as chemical sprays), there's no way to definitively stop them from occurring for the time being (hopefully one day, there will be).
This all leads to my main point of this blog post: Adhesions suck. Royally. Because you can't do a damn thing about them. Doctors can surgically remove them, but then that surgery will leave more adhesions in its wake. It's a never-ending cycle.
After the last few days in the hospital, I have to admit that I'm physically, emotionally, and spiritually drained. I'm resigned to the fact that I will inevitably be hospitalized again in the future for bowel obstructions -- they may even increase in occurrence over time. Pun intended, this scares the shit out of me. To have knowledge that you will face specific sufferings in the future and you can't do a thing about it is a heavy burden. I feel helpless with this knowledge now, and it's going to weigh on me for a while. It's a matter of wondering what the hell I do now. I have to move on, face the fact that this struggle will never end, and focus on the people, activities, and things that I love. But that's hard to do at the moment. I'd really like to just avoid all of my responsibilities right now and just have fun -- that's not realistic, of course.
Life has punched me in the gut, knocked me to the floor, and I'm currently down. The referee is counting to ten, and I just want to stay where I am. I don't want to get up and face more of the punches.
Adhesions suck.
I'm better than this, and I will rise above these feelings. I've got to ensure that the aspects of my life that I do have control over are happy, thriving ones. That means some major life changes to better my situation. But this is an emotional and existential challenge that I'm going to need to deal with first. For now, I can only send out my thoughts and feelings in this blog.
Tuesday, February 24, 2015
Financial Debt and Wellbeing
Financial debt, particularly in the form of credit card debt, can deeply affect your personal self-worth. That has been my experience, at least. But this is ultimately a positive story to tell.
When I turned 18 years old and entered college in 1997, at a time when credit card companies were permitted to set up tables across college campuses and offer their plastic cards at low interest rates AND a free t-shirt (!) when you open an account, I fell victim to that scene. Except that's not quite true. I was not a victim. I could logically work it out in my head that every penny and dollar that I spent using a credit card was not free money spent. I knew I would owe it all back eventually plus interest. However, each credit card transaction felt like a minor event. I'd think, "When I graduate and make lots of money, I'll easily pay this back." Hundreds (probably thousands) of credit card transactions added up and gradually weighed me down.
I carried out this poor financial plan of instant gratification and delayed punishment for fourteen years. During graduate school I took it to a new level when I took out $16,000 in student loans, mistakenly believing it was a necessary action to stay afloat as a poor graduate student. It wasn't necessary. I simply didn't want to face the truth that I needed to live within my means. I wanted to spend money on material possessions (many of which I eventually threw away but still had the debt associated with them) and fun vacations. Even when I got a "real job" after graduate school, I maintained my bad habits. I'd try to validate my spending routine with excuses: "Maybe I'll inherit lots of money one day" or "I can stop spending so much whenever I want" or "I always make the minimum payments, so what's the harm?"
By September 2011, I had accumulated over $38,000 in credit card debt. Major car trouble that year finally triggered a financial existential crisis. I am incredibly lucky to have parents who could help me out, and I was able to get a used car from my father. I am thankful for this advantage I had. I know that most don't have that safety net. That crisis opened my eyes to my real situation: I was weighed down by debt - financially and emotionally. I felt ashamed. When I dated other people, I knew I'd eventually have to mention my debt. I'd see people my age get married or buy a new car or make a down payment on a home with their savings, with few if any worries. I'd wish I could be like them.
It was a depressing experience, literally. Feeling that shame for years, even when it was below the surface, made me feel like I had little worth. It inhibited my career plans. It inhibited my relationships. It inhibited my sense of pride.
But then I was given sound advice when I sat down with my friend and coworker Amanda. She suggested a debt management plan through Money Management International (MMI). She knew someone else that did it, and it worked for them. It was the first advice I had heard from anyone that seemed to make any sense. I talked it over with my mother, and she reminded me that it wouldn't be easy. I'd actually have to budget my money and use only what I had in my bank account. I'd have to throw away all of my credit cards. ALL of them. No "emergency" credit card on the side. "Emergencies" are slippery things you can easily create out of thin air. When I called the financial counselor with MMI, she helped me come up with a plan. It'd take about four and a half years at most to pay off all of the credit card debt. MMI works with the credit card companies to reduce your interest rates and modify your minimum monthly payments.
Here's what my situation looked like - I have no shame in explaining it now, and perhaps if you're reading this, it might help you by seeing what MMI was able to do for me.
Credit Card Balance APR APR Reduced Monthly Minimum Payment
Old New
#1 $3,459 10.24% (no reduction) $65 $82
#2 $2,666 13.24% 6% $57 $65
#3 $17,992 22.99% 9.9% $550 $419
#4 $4,370 19.99% 6.99% $91 $92
#5 $9,716 9.9% 3% $177 $202
As you can see, MMI was able to significantly reduce the annual interest rates for four of the five credit cards. Some monthly minimum payments went up; some went down. The total monthly payments were lower with the new plan. It was a plan customized to meet my budgetary needs. MMI charged me a $30 monthly administrative fee, but that has been a small price to pay. My financial counselor suggested requesting an income-sensitive based payment plan for my student loan; since that interest rate was so low (just 3%), it made sense to make lower payments to that so that I could make higher payments to the higher interest credit cards. MMI closed four of my five credit card accounts, but left one open so I could maintain a credit history. But I wasn't permitted to use that card. The MMI plan was financially smart, and it forced me to stick to it by signing an agreement. I could back out of the agreement at any time, but all of the interest rates would go back up if I did that. Once I signed my name, I felt like I made a commitment to MMI, to the credit companies, but most importantly to myself. Once I signed the agreement, I instantly felt relieved -- I felt GOOD. Some weight felt lifted from my chest because this was a plan for a positive future.
I've never backed out of the plan. I've stuck with it. You can read my prior blog posts and see that I made sacrifices to have a budget designed to be within my means of living. I also got creative and came up with ways to save money. Sometimes I made additional payments when I had extra cash. I'd occasionally work a side job to make additional money. As my salary increased a bit, I'd distribute the salary increase directly to my credit card payments through MMI. With my tax refunds, I'd designate a portion of it for payments. I'd also put aside money in a savings account for those true emergencies. My credit score has risen dramatically throughout this time.
It actually hasn't been too difficult to stick to this plan. At times, I'd feel down, wishing I had more money to spend. But I never considered backing out because I knew I'd be hurting myself.
In January 2015, I paid off my first credit card. Now this month (February 2015), I paid off the second credit card. Presently, my credit card debt is under $9,000 (which is $29,000 less than what it was in September 2011). By November 2015 (probably sooner), the remaining three credit card accounts will be whittled down to zero. At that time I'll be able to focus on paying off my student loan. Most importantly, I'll be able to start building a financial future.
This is the year when I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. It is invigorating. I can visualize a near-future where I can control my destiny through my career, relationships, and overall well-being. And perhaps this can serve as an opportunity to help someone else who is in financial distress and needs that push, motivation, or advice to make a plan for a positive future.
When I turned 18 years old and entered college in 1997, at a time when credit card companies were permitted to set up tables across college campuses and offer their plastic cards at low interest rates AND a free t-shirt (!) when you open an account, I fell victim to that scene. Except that's not quite true. I was not a victim. I could logically work it out in my head that every penny and dollar that I spent using a credit card was not free money spent. I knew I would owe it all back eventually plus interest. However, each credit card transaction felt like a minor event. I'd think, "When I graduate and make lots of money, I'll easily pay this back." Hundreds (probably thousands) of credit card transactions added up and gradually weighed me down.
I carried out this poor financial plan of instant gratification and delayed punishment for fourteen years. During graduate school I took it to a new level when I took out $16,000 in student loans, mistakenly believing it was a necessary action to stay afloat as a poor graduate student. It wasn't necessary. I simply didn't want to face the truth that I needed to live within my means. I wanted to spend money on material possessions (many of which I eventually threw away but still had the debt associated with them) and fun vacations. Even when I got a "real job" after graduate school, I maintained my bad habits. I'd try to validate my spending routine with excuses: "Maybe I'll inherit lots of money one day" or "I can stop spending so much whenever I want" or "I always make the minimum payments, so what's the harm?"
By September 2011, I had accumulated over $38,000 in credit card debt. Major car trouble that year finally triggered a financial existential crisis. I am incredibly lucky to have parents who could help me out, and I was able to get a used car from my father. I am thankful for this advantage I had. I know that most don't have that safety net. That crisis opened my eyes to my real situation: I was weighed down by debt - financially and emotionally. I felt ashamed. When I dated other people, I knew I'd eventually have to mention my debt. I'd see people my age get married or buy a new car or make a down payment on a home with their savings, with few if any worries. I'd wish I could be like them.
It was a depressing experience, literally. Feeling that shame for years, even when it was below the surface, made me feel like I had little worth. It inhibited my career plans. It inhibited my relationships. It inhibited my sense of pride.
But then I was given sound advice when I sat down with my friend and coworker Amanda. She suggested a debt management plan through Money Management International (MMI). She knew someone else that did it, and it worked for them. It was the first advice I had heard from anyone that seemed to make any sense. I talked it over with my mother, and she reminded me that it wouldn't be easy. I'd actually have to budget my money and use only what I had in my bank account. I'd have to throw away all of my credit cards. ALL of them. No "emergency" credit card on the side. "Emergencies" are slippery things you can easily create out of thin air. When I called the financial counselor with MMI, she helped me come up with a plan. It'd take about four and a half years at most to pay off all of the credit card debt. MMI works with the credit card companies to reduce your interest rates and modify your minimum monthly payments.
Here's what my situation looked like - I have no shame in explaining it now, and perhaps if you're reading this, it might help you by seeing what MMI was able to do for me.
Credit Card Balance APR APR Reduced Monthly Minimum Payment
Old New
#1 $3,459 10.24% (no reduction) $65 $82
#2 $2,666 13.24% 6% $57 $65
#3 $17,992 22.99% 9.9% $550 $419
#4 $4,370 19.99% 6.99% $91 $92
#5 $9,716 9.9% 3% $177 $202
As you can see, MMI was able to significantly reduce the annual interest rates for four of the five credit cards. Some monthly minimum payments went up; some went down. The total monthly payments were lower with the new plan. It was a plan customized to meet my budgetary needs. MMI charged me a $30 monthly administrative fee, but that has been a small price to pay. My financial counselor suggested requesting an income-sensitive based payment plan for my student loan; since that interest rate was so low (just 3%), it made sense to make lower payments to that so that I could make higher payments to the higher interest credit cards. MMI closed four of my five credit card accounts, but left one open so I could maintain a credit history. But I wasn't permitted to use that card. The MMI plan was financially smart, and it forced me to stick to it by signing an agreement. I could back out of the agreement at any time, but all of the interest rates would go back up if I did that. Once I signed my name, I felt like I made a commitment to MMI, to the credit companies, but most importantly to myself. Once I signed the agreement, I instantly felt relieved -- I felt GOOD. Some weight felt lifted from my chest because this was a plan for a positive future.
I've never backed out of the plan. I've stuck with it. You can read my prior blog posts and see that I made sacrifices to have a budget designed to be within my means of living. I also got creative and came up with ways to save money. Sometimes I made additional payments when I had extra cash. I'd occasionally work a side job to make additional money. As my salary increased a bit, I'd distribute the salary increase directly to my credit card payments through MMI. With my tax refunds, I'd designate a portion of it for payments. I'd also put aside money in a savings account for those true emergencies. My credit score has risen dramatically throughout this time.
It actually hasn't been too difficult to stick to this plan. At times, I'd feel down, wishing I had more money to spend. But I never considered backing out because I knew I'd be hurting myself.
In January 2015, I paid off my first credit card. Now this month (February 2015), I paid off the second credit card. Presently, my credit card debt is under $9,000 (which is $29,000 less than what it was in September 2011). By November 2015 (probably sooner), the remaining three credit card accounts will be whittled down to zero. At that time I'll be able to focus on paying off my student loan. Most importantly, I'll be able to start building a financial future.
This is the year when I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. It is invigorating. I can visualize a near-future where I can control my destiny through my career, relationships, and overall well-being. And perhaps this can serve as an opportunity to help someone else who is in financial distress and needs that push, motivation, or advice to make a plan for a positive future.
Saturday, January 11, 2014
The Glass is Half Empty (And That's a Good Thing)
In September 2011, I was sinking in credit card debt of just over $38,000. Over the years, I had placed in my figurative glass IOU after IOU for the credit card companies. A trip to England? No problem: I'll owe you. A new computer? Easy: I'll owe you. Emergency car repair? That's no fun, but sure: I'll owe you.
When my 13 year old vehicle was giving me major issues and I realized that I wouldn't be able to afford the cost of repairs or a new-to-me car, that's when I realized how much trouble I had. I was making minimum monthly payments on my credit cards; I never missed a payment, but I also kept on tacking on more debt. So my debt-to-credit limit ratio was always worsening.
I was in a panic and feeling nearly hopeless. The best advice I received was from a colleague who said I should consider a debt management plan. I set up a phone appointment with a financial counselor at Money Management International (MMI). We went over all of my income, debts, and other obligations. She helped me create a manageable budget and agreed that a debt management plan would work well for me. The plan reduced my credit card interest rates by a great deal, but all of the cards' accounts would be closed except for one. And I wouldn't be permitted to use that card while I'm paying off debt; it was just to keep some credit history. I would pay a $30 monthly fee to MMI, which was pocket change compared to the significant savings from the lowered interest rates. The remaining $860 would be divvied out by MMI to the credit card companies. And I'd be on this plan until January 2016.
I've stayed true to this plan, and I'm happy to say that this coming week, I'll make my 29th monthly payment of $890, and as a result, my glass of IOUs will officially be half empty. 50 percent of the credit card debt has been paid off, and I presently have about $19,000 in credit card debt. It's still a large figure, but it feels important to celebrate this milestone.
Since September 2011, I made a number of changes to how I earn and spend my money:
I still participate in my daily pleasure of buying a mocha latte, and certainly I could have saved considerably more money by making my own coffee, but I decided I wanted to retain something I could enjoy on a regular basis. It's worth it to me.
I have two years remaining until my figurative glass is empty. Into that glass, I'll be able to put in what I want to. More savings. More investing. More discretionary fun, but within my means. Better positioning to make major life decisions. What a relief that will be to have such financial control and flexibility. And that will be the difference: I will control my finances; they won't control me.
When my 13 year old vehicle was giving me major issues and I realized that I wouldn't be able to afford the cost of repairs or a new-to-me car, that's when I realized how much trouble I had. I was making minimum monthly payments on my credit cards; I never missed a payment, but I also kept on tacking on more debt. So my debt-to-credit limit ratio was always worsening.
I was in a panic and feeling nearly hopeless. The best advice I received was from a colleague who said I should consider a debt management plan. I set up a phone appointment with a financial counselor at Money Management International (MMI). We went over all of my income, debts, and other obligations. She helped me create a manageable budget and agreed that a debt management plan would work well for me. The plan reduced my credit card interest rates by a great deal, but all of the cards' accounts would be closed except for one. And I wouldn't be permitted to use that card while I'm paying off debt; it was just to keep some credit history. I would pay a $30 monthly fee to MMI, which was pocket change compared to the significant savings from the lowered interest rates. The remaining $860 would be divvied out by MMI to the credit card companies. And I'd be on this plan until January 2016.
I've stayed true to this plan, and I'm happy to say that this coming week, I'll make my 29th monthly payment of $890, and as a result, my glass of IOUs will officially be half empty. 50 percent of the credit card debt has been paid off, and I presently have about $19,000 in credit card debt. It's still a large figure, but it feels important to celebrate this milestone.
Since September 2011, I made a number of changes to how I earn and spend my money:
- Increased my income a bit by taking on additional hours working occasional events
- Reduced my cell phone bill by switching to a no-contract company called Ting; my monthly bills went from about $75 to $30
- Automatically transferred $100 every month to a savings account for emergency purposes
- Stuck to a budget on dining out, entertainment, etc. (sometimes I do overspend in one of these areas, but I compensate by reducing my spending in another area that particular month)
I still participate in my daily pleasure of buying a mocha latte, and certainly I could have saved considerably more money by making my own coffee, but I decided I wanted to retain something I could enjoy on a regular basis. It's worth it to me.
I have two years remaining until my figurative glass is empty. Into that glass, I'll be able to put in what I want to. More savings. More investing. More discretionary fun, but within my means. Better positioning to make major life decisions. What a relief that will be to have such financial control and flexibility. And that will be the difference: I will control my finances; they won't control me.
Saturday, October 19, 2013
Adventures in Nova Scotia!
It had been eight years since I last traveled out of the country, so the opportunity to visit Nova Scotia for four days during the month of October was a refreshing experience. My uncle has a friend who lives in Port Maitland, just a few miles north of the city of Yarmouth, Nova Scotia, who invited him, his partner, and me to stay at her home. She and her husband were wonderful hosts, and I'm so grateful for their hospitality. They provided us with great food, a comfortable and relaxing place to sleep, and a pleasing atmosphere. The weather was gorgeous the entire visit, too - warm and sunny throughout!
Our journey started at 6am on a Wednesday morning with a short two-hour drive north from my uncle's house in Maine to the Canadian border. The border agent asked us lots of questions, but parted ways with us with a sense of humor: "Will you get into trouble if I let you boys in?" Of course, we wouldn't. And truly, we didn't!
After a brief detour by my mistaken GPS which brought us to the wrong ferry in Blacks Harbour, we ventured another hour to Saint John, New Brunswick and took a three-hour ferry ride on the Princess of Acadia from Saint John to Digby, Nova Scotia. The ferry staff directed us to the lower level where I parked my Prius cozily in company with other vehicles. We had free roam of the ship with plenty of amenities: a cafeteria, a couple lounges, a movie (The Great Gatsby was playing), free high-speed wireless internet, and beautiful views of the Bay of Fundy. The ferry shows its age, but it met all of our needs. It's nice to just relax, walk around, and take in the fresh sea air. While I originally wanted to drive around the Bay of Fundy, the ferry ended up cutting a couple of hours of travel time. It also saved three hours of driving.
When we deboarded at Digby, it was just a short one-hour drive to Port Maitland to meet up with my uncle's friend. They gave us a tour of their home, a former bed-and-breakfast originally built in the 1860s. It's a beautiful home which they clearly took care in renovating and making it their own (which means it's very classy). They had a vegetable garden with a small barn in the back yard and colorful flowers in the front yard. Their house was not even a mile from the beach, too! It was a short first day in Nova Scotia since we hadn't arrived until at 4pm, but we had a delicious home-cooked pasta dinner and great conversation.
On Thursday, we checked out the city of Yarmouth starting with breakfast at a cute little place called the Old World Bakery. We also visited the Cape Forchu Lighthouse which was a fifteen-minute drive south of Yarmouth. Cape Forchu features some really unique rock formations, the likes of which I've never seen before. And it was a place I needed to visit again, as a half-hour wasn't enough time to really appreciate it. From there, we had lunch with my uncle's friend as well as the owners of the impressive MacKinnon-Cann Inn. The couple that own the inn and cafe there were entertaining (very outgoing and boisterous personalities), and we also got a quick tour of the inn as well as the house they live in down the street. The inn featured rooms that each span a particular decade in time in North America. Really cool!
We took a gander at the Yarmouth County Museum & Archives that had an eclectic historical collection native to the city and region. I saw some walking sticks for sale there, so I had to purchase one since I make a habit of collecting them on my journeys. Though the woman working at the front desk didn't know who made them at the time, she made some phone calls and ultimately took down a message for me (and I received a response from the assistant director of the museum the next day). Sadly, the creator of the walking sticks, a Yarmouth local named George A. Nickerson, passed away, but his creations had been donated to the museum so I was glad all of the proceeds from the purchase went to the museum at least. And I'm the proud owner of a unique new walking stick!
Through the day, we had learned a great deal about the history of Yarmouth. It's a sea port that used to have a frequent ferry service from the States, but when the ferry stopped running, it hurt business. Fortunately, there's a plan for a ferry to run again between Portland, Maine and Yarmouth starting in May 2014, so it should invigorate the city once again. Every one in the area was talking excitedly about the prospects of the ferry returning.
We walked the beach in Port Maitland and collected some cool rocks smoothed out over time by the ocean waves and other elements. The tidal changes are dramatic, and since it was low tide, we were able to walking along the sand bar. For dinner, we had another home-cooked meal. I learned about my uncle's friend's interest in family history, and I'm hoping to help her with her research in the near future.
Friday started with breakfast at a little diner near Beaver River just a couple miles north of Port Maitland. I don't remember the name of the diner but it was good food! For the rest of the day, we put my Prius into action by taking a long drive on Route 3 along the coastline to Barrington Passage and back. It was a chance to see a lot of the local rural communities including those on Cape Sable Island. We got back in time for dinner at a local Port Maitland restaurant, Hidden Treasures Family Restaurant. My uncle got to see another old friend there. I enjoyed a cold lobster sandwich - so tasty. That night, I pulled out my brand new camera lens and tried it out on some night stars photography at the beach. That form of photography is still a work-in-progress for me, but I think the lens showed promise for further practice!
Saturday began at 6am to see the sun rise near the Beaver River cemeteries. It seems to be a popular place for local photographers interested in the views provided for a sun rise. I took a nap, and after waking up and getting a warm shower, we visited a cool little antique store in a barn a short drive away in Brenton, called Yaciuk's Antiques. The owners seemed really nice. The main attraction there were their beautiful clocks (cuckoo clocks, mantle clocks, and other wall clocks). Afterwards, we drove by a few houses for sale that my uncle wanted to see. Real estate is extremely inexpensive compared to the U.S., at least where we visited in Nova Scotia. If I had money to spend on a vacation home, the southern Nova Scotia coast would be a great spot!
Thereafter, we returned to Yarmouth for lunch at the Old World Bakery, and we saw one of our hosts play some folksy music on his guitar at Sip, a local cafe. He's got a good sound! Also on an aside, I noticed that Sip had almond milk for their mochas (or any espresso beverage) but I thought that was terrific - why don't more coffee places offer almond milk?! Such a better option than soy milk. But I digress.
We returned to Port Maitland for more nap time. I don't know why but my energy levels were super low during the day. But I got my passion going for a second visit to Cape Forchu at sun set. I took a lot of photos there, and I could have continued for more than an hour but alas, my companions were chilly and hungry. So we headed out and had one last dinner together at Rudder's Seafood Restaurant in Yarmouth. It was kind of sad, because we knew it was our last night in Nova Scotia so we just enjoyed ourselves with some good conversation!
The next morning we took off at 6am to drive back to Digby to catch the ferry back to Saint John. But before the ferry journey began, Nova Scotia gave us a parting gift of one of the most stunning sunrises I've ever seen. Low-lying clouds and fog along the water contributed to some beautiful colors. It was like the horizon of the sky was on fire, and with some patches of blue sky higher up, the contrasting colors were captivating. I burned through my camera's battery that morning!
The drive back after the ferry ride was uneventful. We pooled together all of our Canadian bills and coins and bought some gas since we knew we wouldn't be able to use them back in the U.S. When we reached the American border, U.S. customs agent was actually really nice and didn't give us a difficult time at all; we expected a lot more questions coming back into the states but it was quick and easy.
I definitely plan on returning to Nova Scotia again, especially considering there will likely be a ferry coming out of Portland. I'd like to see Cape Breton which is further north in Nova Scotia and offers a different sort of landscape, something more like Scotland from what I've heard. I also want to visit the city of Halifax. Nova Scotia is a beautiful country, perfect for landscape photography! And ideal for anyone who wants to relax and appreciate nature, old buildings, and wonderful, friendly people.
Want to see more images from this adventure? I've made about 70 photographs available that I took from the trip in this album on my Google+ page.
Our journey started at 6am on a Wednesday morning with a short two-hour drive north from my uncle's house in Maine to the Canadian border. The border agent asked us lots of questions, but parted ways with us with a sense of humor: "Will you get into trouble if I let you boys in?" Of course, we wouldn't. And truly, we didn't!
After a brief detour by my mistaken GPS which brought us to the wrong ferry in Blacks Harbour, we ventured another hour to Saint John, New Brunswick and took a three-hour ferry ride on the Princess of Acadia from Saint John to Digby, Nova Scotia. The ferry staff directed us to the lower level where I parked my Prius cozily in company with other vehicles. We had free roam of the ship with plenty of amenities: a cafeteria, a couple lounges, a movie (The Great Gatsby was playing), free high-speed wireless internet, and beautiful views of the Bay of Fundy. The ferry shows its age, but it met all of our needs. It's nice to just relax, walk around, and take in the fresh sea air. While I originally wanted to drive around the Bay of Fundy, the ferry ended up cutting a couple of hours of travel time. It also saved three hours of driving.
When we deboarded at Digby, it was just a short one-hour drive to Port Maitland to meet up with my uncle's friend. They gave us a tour of their home, a former bed-and-breakfast originally built in the 1860s. It's a beautiful home which they clearly took care in renovating and making it their own (which means it's very classy). They had a vegetable garden with a small barn in the back yard and colorful flowers in the front yard. Their house was not even a mile from the beach, too! It was a short first day in Nova Scotia since we hadn't arrived until at 4pm, but we had a delicious home-cooked pasta dinner and great conversation.
On Thursday, we checked out the city of Yarmouth starting with breakfast at a cute little place called the Old World Bakery. We also visited the Cape Forchu Lighthouse which was a fifteen-minute drive south of Yarmouth. Cape Forchu features some really unique rock formations, the likes of which I've never seen before. And it was a place I needed to visit again, as a half-hour wasn't enough time to really appreciate it. From there, we had lunch with my uncle's friend as well as the owners of the impressive MacKinnon-Cann Inn. The couple that own the inn and cafe there were entertaining (very outgoing and boisterous personalities), and we also got a quick tour of the inn as well as the house they live in down the street. The inn featured rooms that each span a particular decade in time in North America. Really cool!
Through the day, we had learned a great deal about the history of Yarmouth. It's a sea port that used to have a frequent ferry service from the States, but when the ferry stopped running, it hurt business. Fortunately, there's a plan for a ferry to run again between Portland, Maine and Yarmouth starting in May 2014, so it should invigorate the city once again. Every one in the area was talking excitedly about the prospects of the ferry returning.
We walked the beach in Port Maitland and collected some cool rocks smoothed out over time by the ocean waves and other elements. The tidal changes are dramatic, and since it was low tide, we were able to walking along the sand bar. For dinner, we had another home-cooked meal. I learned about my uncle's friend's interest in family history, and I'm hoping to help her with her research in the near future.
Friday started with breakfast at a little diner near Beaver River just a couple miles north of Port Maitland. I don't remember the name of the diner but it was good food! For the rest of the day, we put my Prius into action by taking a long drive on Route 3 along the coastline to Barrington Passage and back. It was a chance to see a lot of the local rural communities including those on Cape Sable Island. We got back in time for dinner at a local Port Maitland restaurant, Hidden Treasures Family Restaurant. My uncle got to see another old friend there. I enjoyed a cold lobster sandwich - so tasty. That night, I pulled out my brand new camera lens and tried it out on some night stars photography at the beach. That form of photography is still a work-in-progress for me, but I think the lens showed promise for further practice!
Thereafter, we returned to Yarmouth for lunch at the Old World Bakery, and we saw one of our hosts play some folksy music on his guitar at Sip, a local cafe. He's got a good sound! Also on an aside, I noticed that Sip had almond milk for their mochas (or any espresso beverage) but I thought that was terrific - why don't more coffee places offer almond milk?! Such a better option than soy milk. But I digress.
Cape Forchu landscape |
The next morning we took off at 6am to drive back to Digby to catch the ferry back to Saint John. But before the ferry journey began, Nova Scotia gave us a parting gift of one of the most stunning sunrises I've ever seen. Low-lying clouds and fog along the water contributed to some beautiful colors. It was like the horizon of the sky was on fire, and with some patches of blue sky higher up, the contrasting colors were captivating. I burned through my camera's battery that morning!
The drive back after the ferry ride was uneventful. We pooled together all of our Canadian bills and coins and bought some gas since we knew we wouldn't be able to use them back in the U.S. When we reached the American border, U.S. customs agent was actually really nice and didn't give us a difficult time at all; we expected a lot more questions coming back into the states but it was quick and easy.
I definitely plan on returning to Nova Scotia again, especially considering there will likely be a ferry coming out of Portland. I'd like to see Cape Breton which is further north in Nova Scotia and offers a different sort of landscape, something more like Scotland from what I've heard. I also want to visit the city of Halifax. Nova Scotia is a beautiful country, perfect for landscape photography! And ideal for anyone who wants to relax and appreciate nature, old buildings, and wonderful, friendly people.
Want to see more images from this adventure? I've made about 70 photographs available that I took from the trip in this album on my Google+ page.
Sunday, July 28, 2013
Images of Boston
Boston is only a 40 minute trek away from me, so I don't know why I fail to visit more often. On the evening of Saturday, July 27, 2013, I drove up to Quincy and took the subway to Prudential Station. With my camera and tripod, I endeavored on an adventure of the soul.
French photographer Marc Riboud noted that "taking pictures is savoring life intensely, every hundredth of a second." I find photography to be a spiritual activity, particularly when capturing images of urban and natural landscapes. It is a calming experience in which I can infinitely appreciate singular moments.
This particular writing is a journal of an evening in just a small part of Boston near the Prudential Center and the Christian Science Plaza. There is so much more of Boston to breathe in.
It was an hour before the sun would set. From Prudential Station, I took the elevator to the fiftieth floor of the Prudential Tower, where you can take in 360 degrees of views of the city of Boston from the Skywalk Observatory. There is an admission fee, although with a Massachusetts Teachers Association card, there is no charge. I sadly had to part temporarily with my tripod, as I was informed those are not permitted. The observatory is fully enclosed with glass, which adds the challenge of smudges, scratches, and reflections. Night photography is challenging enough without the glass.
I carried in a camera bag my Canon Digital Rebel, 18-55mm and 70-300mm lenses, a camera remote control, and a rubber lens hood. The camera remote enables you to release the shutter without touching the camera, thus avoiding camera shake. The rubber lens hood reduces the amount of glare and unwanted reflections getting into the picture. Without my tripod, it was more difficult to capture the images I wanted. Thankfully, my camera bag was sturdy enough to balance my camera, although positioning proved to be tricky.
The setting sun lit the western facades of buildings with a rich saturation of color that's very satisfying. Skyscrapers (i.e., 111 Huntington Avenue and the John Hancock Tower), Fenway Park, the classic Citgo sign, the Christian Science Center, and the red-bricked Bostonian buildings dotted the landscape. The brief time after sunset was my favorite, as city lights came on but a bit of sunlight remained. As night fell, it was more challenging to take good photographs through the glass.
That's why the Christian Science Plaza was a perfect location to visit afterwards. Clear skies, no glass interfering other than the camera lens itself, and gorgeous scenery! A long rectangular reflecting pool stands by the Christian Science Center. Serendipity stepped in as fireworks were set off for a few seconds at the tail end of a five-second photograph I was taking of the center. All in all, I spent just over three hours "savoring" life.
Here are a few of the photographs I took in Boston that evening:
French photographer Marc Riboud noted that "taking pictures is savoring life intensely, every hundredth of a second." I find photography to be a spiritual activity, particularly when capturing images of urban and natural landscapes. It is a calming experience in which I can infinitely appreciate singular moments.
This particular writing is a journal of an evening in just a small part of Boston near the Prudential Center and the Christian Science Plaza. There is so much more of Boston to breathe in.
It was an hour before the sun would set. From Prudential Station, I took the elevator to the fiftieth floor of the Prudential Tower, where you can take in 360 degrees of views of the city of Boston from the Skywalk Observatory. There is an admission fee, although with a Massachusetts Teachers Association card, there is no charge. I sadly had to part temporarily with my tripod, as I was informed those are not permitted. The observatory is fully enclosed with glass, which adds the challenge of smudges, scratches, and reflections. Night photography is challenging enough without the glass.
I carried in a camera bag my Canon Digital Rebel, 18-55mm and 70-300mm lenses, a camera remote control, and a rubber lens hood. The camera remote enables you to release the shutter without touching the camera, thus avoiding camera shake. The rubber lens hood reduces the amount of glare and unwanted reflections getting into the picture. Without my tripod, it was more difficult to capture the images I wanted. Thankfully, my camera bag was sturdy enough to balance my camera, although positioning proved to be tricky.
The setting sun lit the western facades of buildings with a rich saturation of color that's very satisfying. Skyscrapers (i.e., 111 Huntington Avenue and the John Hancock Tower), Fenway Park, the classic Citgo sign, the Christian Science Center, and the red-bricked Bostonian buildings dotted the landscape. The brief time after sunset was my favorite, as city lights came on but a bit of sunlight remained. As night fell, it was more challenging to take good photographs through the glass.
That's why the Christian Science Plaza was a perfect location to visit afterwards. Clear skies, no glass interfering other than the camera lens itself, and gorgeous scenery! A long rectangular reflecting pool stands by the Christian Science Center. Serendipity stepped in as fireworks were set off for a few seconds at the tail end of a five-second photograph I was taking of the center. All in all, I spent just over three hours "savoring" life.
Here are a few of the photographs I took in Boston that evening:
My favorite photo of the evening: John Hancock Tower, and just to the right in the sky, you can see the light trail of a plane taking off from Logan Airport |
The Christian Science Publishing Society; the blue lighting drew me right in! |
Serendipitous fireworks exploded in the skies behind the Christian Science Center |
Fenway Park |
The setting sun saturated these towering buildings with rich light |
A wide view of Boston; the Trinity Church of Copley Square can be seen in the lower right |
111 Huntington Avenue skyscraper towers above residential buildings |
The iconic Citgo sign in Kenmore Square |
Reflections at the Christian Science Center |
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